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1 Kings 1:1-6 (MSG) “King David grew old. The years had caught up with him. Even though they piled blankets on him, he couldn't keep warm. So his servants said to him, "We're going to get a young virgin for our master the king to be at his side and look after him;  So they searched the country of Israel for the most ravishing girl they could find; they found Abishag and brought her to the king.  The girl was stunningly beautiful; she stayed at his side and looked after the king.   At this time Adonijah,… puffed himself up saying, "I'm the next king!" He made quite a splash, with chariots and riders and fifty men to run ahead of him. His father had spoiled him rotten as a child, never once reprimanding him. Besides that, he was very good-looking and the next in line after Absalom.”

Lessons from a Father who did not discipline his child:

 

1.He never interfered by opposing or questioning                 his son

 

2.Adonijah did not know how to work within limits.

 

3.Adonijah always wanted his way

 

4.Adonijah did whatever he wanted

An undisciplined child may look cute to his/her parents but an undisciplined adult destroys himself and others.

 

1.  My child may lack concern for character development.

What does a child look like who gets no discipline:

1.They lose their temper

2.They argue with adults

3.They defy or refuse to obey with your requests

4.They deliberately annoy others

5.They blame others of their own mistakes

6.They’re touchy or easily annoyed

7.They’re angry and resentful, spiteful or vindictive

8.They like to bully or intimidate others

9.They often lie

10.They are defiant

11.They are cruel to animals and people

 

Proverbs 13:24 (MSG) “A refusal to correct is a refusal to love; love your children by disciplining them.”

Lessons learned by no discipline

1.Lack of discipline puts parents' love in question     because it shows a lack of concern for the                         character development of their children.

2.Disciplining children averts long-range disaster

3.Without correction, children grow up with no clear  understanding of right and wrong and with little          direction to their lives.

Hebrews 12:8 (MSG) “Only irresponsible parents leave children to fend for themselves.”

Hebrews 12:5-11 (CEV) “Who loves his child more — the father who allows the child to do what will harm him, or the one who corrects, trains, and even punishes the child to help him learn what is right? It's never pleasant to be corrected and disciplined by God, but his discipline is a sign of his deep love for us. When God corrects you, see it as proof of his love and ask him what he is trying to teach you.”

2.  My child may never know how much Ilove            him/her.

1 Kings 1:9 (MSG) “Next Adonijah held a coronation feast, sacrificing sheep, cattle, and grain-fed heifers. He invited all his brothers, the king's sons, and everyone in Judah who had position and influence—”

3.  My child may undermine me when I am old if I do not discipline

1 Kings 1:10 (MSG) “[Adonijah] did not invite the prophet Nathan, Benaiah, the bodyguards, or his brother Solomon.”

4.  My child may not follow the ways of God if I do    give discipline.

1 Kings 1:11-18 (MSG) “ Nathan went to Bathsheba, Solomon's mother, 'Did you know that Adonijah, has taken over as king, and our master David doesn't know a thing about it? Quickly now, let me tell you how you can save both your own life and Solomon's. Go immediately to King David. Speak up: 'Didn't you, my master the king, promise me, "Your son Solomon will be king after me and sit on my throne"? So why is Adonijah now king?' While you're there talking with the king, I'll come in and corroborate your story." Bathsheba went at once to the king in his palace bedroom. He was so old! Abishag was at his side making him comfortable. As Bathsheba bowed low, honoring the king, he said, "What do you want?" "My master," she said, "you promised me in God's name, 'Your son Solomon will be king after me and sit on my throne.'

And now look what's happened—Adonijah has taken over as king, and my master the king doesn't even know it! '”

5.  My child may take all my belongings without       discussing any plans with me.

1 Kings 1:20-21 (MSG) “My master the king, every eye in Israel is watching you to see what you'll do—to see who will sit on the throne of my master the king after him. If you fail to act, the moment you're buried my son Solomon and I are as good as dead.”

6.  My child may not respect or look after my             spouse when I am dead.

1 Kings 1:49-50 (MSG) “[The news of Solomon just anointed King of Israel, Adonijah’s guests] Panicked, Adonijah's guests got out of there, scattering every which way. But Adonijah himself, afraid for his life because of Solomon, fled to the sanctuary and grabbed the horns of the Altar.”

7.  My child may seek God if his/her life is               threatened.

Look at this list of Character traits and determine which trait you are weak in teaching to your child.

1.Honest

2.Light-hearted

3.Leader

4.Expert

5.Brave

6.Conceited

7.Mischievous

8.Demanding

9.Thoughtful

10.Bright

11.Courageous

12.Serious

13.Funny

14.Humorous

15.Sad

16.Poor

17.Rich

18.Tall

19.Dark

20.Humble

21.Friendly

22.Short

23.Adventurous

24.Hard-working

25.Timid

26.Shy

27.Bold

28.Daring

29.Dainty Happy

30.Disagreeable

31.Simple

32.Fancy

33.Light

34.Handsome

35.Pretty

36.Ugly

37.Pitiful

38.Cooperative

39.Lovable

40.Prim

41.Plain

42.Excited

43.Studious

44.Inventive

45.Creative

46.Thrilling

47.Independent

48.Intelligent

49.Compassionate

50.Gentle

51.Proud

52.Wild

53.Messy

54.Neat

55.Joyful

56.Strong Selfish

57.Unselfish

58.Self-confident

59.Respectful

60.Considerate

61.Imaginative

62.Busy

63.Patriotic

64.Fun-loving

65.Popular

66.Successful

67.Responsible

68.Lazy

69.Dreamer

70.Helpful

71.Simple-minded Proper

72.Ambitious

73.Able

74.Quiet

75.Curious

76.Reserved

77.Pleasing

78.Bossy

79.Witty

80.Fighter

81.Tireless

82.Energetic

83.Cheerful

84.Smart

85.Impulsive

86.Loyal

Why does your child need your discipline?  So that they will not lack in:

1.Character development

2.My love

3.Family Principles

4.Christian faith

5.Financial stability

6.Family Respect

7.A relationship with God

Prayer:

Publisher's Note: Gerry White is the pastor of
Lighthouse Baptist Church and Christian Academy in Hurricane.

The congregation of Lighthouse Baptist Church worships the Lord every Sunday morning.

Traditional worship service is at 9:00. Contemporary worship service starts at 10:30.

Sunday School meets at: 6:00 p.m.

Wednesday night worship service is at 7:00.

AWANA meets at 6:45 Wednesday nights from September through May.

Lighthouse Christian Academy is a Bible-based Christian School, pre-school through 6th grade.

Day Care is 1-5 years old. There is also an after-school program.

Lighthouse Baptist Church and Christian Academy are located at 2440 US Route 60, in Hurricane.

The church phone number is: 304-562-3900.

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